Turning fitness into my passion
To help you guys better understand the enjoyment I get from lifting and why I care so much about helping others become stronger. I’ll open up as to why I started and why I continue to do so.
What was my initial motivation for working out?
This one always makes me chuckle when I tell people, I was once a World of Warcraft player who used to binge anywhere from a minimum of 4-16 hours a day on my computer. Fixated on how best to control my Warlock and take over the world… still do, just the fitness world.
Suffice to say, was not always in shape. So I started working out as I lacked the confidence to be who I wanted to be and admired those who took control of their bodies then commanded a certain presence with it.
How did I start working out and what was my first gym experience like?
I started working at a leisure centre as a lifeguard and was invited to train in the gym with a buddy of mine. I can still remember my first workout, much like Smeagol remembers holding the ring for the first time. Will this make me awesome Precious?
It consisted of me struggling on the treadmill and bike for 10 minutes to warm-up, then hitting some machines like the chest press, lat pull down and leg extension. Ha, was such a pro. But what really stuck out was when I first curled a dumbbell, I became a meat head from that point on. All I wanted to do was curl… I mean lift weights.
What kept me going?
At first like most people I stuck at this for around 8-10 months. Then fell off, hard. I didn’t train for around 5 months as I got back into playing computer games and made soooooo many excuses. This was when I got my first (poorly) designed program, looking at a proper body building 5 day split training. So much chesticles, so much shoulders. Some back, some legs and lots of arms, I have to admit I did love this type of training until I got a cranky shoulder. Who would have guessed from all that pushing. In the end I gave up again, this time I was on and off for around 2 years.
What Obstacles have I faced and how did I overcome them?
So a cranky shoulder and now a bad back from spending too much time at a computer I was off to great start. By this point I was done: done with being out of shape, done with not being able to play sport without being in pain and done with the excuses. I started reading, listening to audio books and watching videos. This was how I came across people like Elliot Hulse, Eric Cressey and Ben Bruno to name a few. From here took on board everything my University drop out mind could take. After seeing numerous professionals and being told to just stretch and avoid lifting heavy these three pretty much said that I was weak. Not directly to me, but I could determine I had really poor scapular control and my Glenohumeral joint was anteriorly tilted (think super slouched shoulders) that I one day could have given the Hunch back of notre dame a run for his… bell tower?
At what point did I start to feel successful and how did this impact my vision of myself?
My shoulder pain started decreasing and I was getting stronger. People started asking me questions as I was beginning to nail a few good Pull-ups and it looked like I had a small bump of a bicep in my arm. Finally. Although I could relate to what I had done I realized I could start helping other people. Around this time I started to work as a Gym Instructor and was writing basic program templates for people to use. People started getting results and if they had a shoulder issue and were allowed to train on it, I could now give some advice. This made me feel like I could teach people about themselves. I felt like a coach.
When was the first time I received a comment about my body and how did this make me feel?
It was someone who I was school friends with I had not seen in a while watching my perform a lat pulldown. They came over and poked my arm and questioned if it was real. Even now I still get comments from people from college/ school about how I used to be “such a geeky little kid”, well I’m still uber geeky. Just not so dam little. Ever since I have felt great and although I don’t strive to impress others or seek validation I still do a mental fist bump when I get a nice remark made. High five, if you were one of those people.
What made me decide to make Personal training my career?
I still feel very new to personal training right now having worked full time for about 2 years. But when I started training people in their homes, then in a gym into a full time personal training facility you realize the impact you have on people’s lives. You show people how to get over frustrating goals, develop other areas of their life outside of the gym as well. I also wanted to teach, so now I get to teach movement and lifestyle.
How do I maintain my passion for fitness today?
For me it’s the challenges of people and making sure they get results. They can only see you once a month? Need to make sure that you can help deal with pesky knee issues, program for them training in a poorly equipped gym during rush hour. Sure, step it up. Training someone (who has clearance from a medical professional) who always has pain in their back and is scared to lift weights. I need a new angel to encourage this person and bring about a change for the better. Same, have to step it up. I constantly evolving, where I feel I know something will work, I apply it and reap the rewards with my clients. If not then we work together to create results.
I plan on being the best personal trainer and lifestyle coach I can be. By stepping up my life and that of my clients until we reach a new level of awesome. For I know what we achieve, the success we create will leave us with no choice, but to be unapologetically awesome!